Whenever I drink alcohol, even just the tiniest bit of wine, my arms ache and feel heavy. I physically don't feel good. So I don't drink.
I just thought I would throw this out there. There used to be a time when I could drink without feeling this way, but sometime in the last 5 years or so this changed.
So, I always turn down alcohol, and people think I'm doing it for some psychological reason. Nope.. I have no problem with being buzzed. If marijuana were legal, I'd be smoking that. But alcohol doesn't make me feel good.